December 31, 2007

hello 2008

in 2007, i've learnt that:-

  1. if you can help it, don't do a PhD unless you really need to; or unless you have a gun put to your head; or unless you're too bored of your life. it will provide that impetus to thoroughly mess up your life, your health, your mental well-being, and your relationships with your loved ones. you'd entertain thoughts of suicide every now and then, as well as self-deprecating thoughts of how useless and redundant you are in this dark, lonely world.

  2. relationships are hard work. somebody once said love is the solution to life's problems. i'd like to have abit of that whatever he/she is smoking. though in fairness, that's partly true, but still LOVE TAKES A LOT OF HARD WORK. just ask my missus.

  3. friends come and go, but the real ones will always be by your side when and if you ever need them. and alsoo that friendships are like highways; they go both ways too. sometimes you'd be in for a surprise if you deem someone as a close friend, and then suddenly realises something big has happened in her life and you're the last one to know. like a wedding. to add salt to the wound, another mutual friend would ask, "you're not invited? this is strange."

  4. I'm a little bit older and a little bit rounder, but still none the wiser.

happy new year, folks.

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